The Holidays can be a hard time for those of us that have lost a loved one or friend... even a pet. Everyone is happy & full of cheer, but things can seem dull & lifeless for those of us that are grieving. I know how hard it is as I have just lost a very dear friend. Being full of Holiday cheer seems forced to me.
Even though I can talk to him & know that he is ok- on the other side. I still miss him. It helps that i am able to talk to him & that he has changed the music on my radio while I was driving to let me know he was around. And he is already giving me his strong opinions from a new vantage point on my life as well.
He just wants me to know that he is fine and still has his FUN personality and most importantly that he is with me all the time.
He is enjoying the parties I attend that are more plentiful during the holidays. So as much as I want to be sad, he is there saying - "no, don't feel sad... I don't want you to feel sad" Let's go to a party or watch a game on TV together"
The people that I talk to that have crossed over say that they do not want us to feel sad for losing them. They want us to go out and DO things that we had in common with them - because they will be there with enjoying every moment. Happy Holidays. Susan I can help you talk with your loved ones or give you psychic advice that will help with your career, family, finance, love life or other areas you may have questions about.
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